Miami might be trendy, hip, and fashionable—but Fort Lauderdale, just 30 minutes north, is its more laid-back, hippy, gay cousin.
Fort Lauderdale has never tried to match the fast-paced glitz of Miami, nor should it. The city more than holds its own with 23 miles of turquoise-watered beaches, at least 50 LGBTQ+-friendly establishments (not to mention the iconic Wilton Manors), and the highest concentration of LGBTQ+ couples in the U.S. So, if you’re looking for a warm-weather destination with beaches and gay activities galore that won't bleed your bank account dry, then Fort Lauderdale might just be your ticket to the perfect Florida gaycation.
Table of Contents
1. General Tips
2. Transportation & Airport Transfer
3. Fort Lauderdale Gay Hotels & Resorts
4. Sightseeing & Activities in Fort Lauderdale
5. Gay Tours in Fort Lauderdale
6. Restaurants and Cafes
7. Fort Lauderdale Gay Bars and Clubs
8. Fort Lauderdale Gay Saunas & Cruising Bars
9. Gay Beaches in Fort Lauderdale
10. Gay Events in Fort Lauderdale
11. Day Trips from Fort Lauderdale
General Tips
It should come as no surprise that Fort Lauderdale boasts a lively gay neighborhood, given its large population of LGBTQ+ residents. Wilton Manors, an area just northwest of downtown, is where you’ll find most of the LGBTQ+-specific venues in town.
Fort Lauderdale has also come out in front purposefully welcoming trans travelers, setting itself apart from most LGBTQ+-friendly destinations. Local authorities and the tourism bureau have worked tirelessly over the past few years to understand the specific needs of the trans community and ensure that the city is equipped to provide for it.
Fort Lauderdale long had a reputation as a destination primarily for the older generation of LGBTQ+ people. While there is still a thriving community of middle-aged and retired residents, the demographic of both residents and visitors has shifted noticeably younger. These days, plenty of 20- and 30-somethings call Fort Lauderdale home or visit each year. Many attribute the growth of Fort Lauderdale’s gay community to the decline in popularity of Miami Beach for LGBTQ+ residents. As Miami has evolved over the decades, many have moved north to the less pretentious and more affordable neighborhoods of Fort Lauderdale, particularly Wilton Manors, where you’ll find the majority of the popular nightlife venues.
The club scene in Fort Lauderdale is distinct from the upscale, sometimes pretentious vibe of Miami Beach. Fort Lauderdale is casual, as are its dance venues. The Manor is a must-visit spot, especially if you choose only one club. However, you can find dancing at other spots as well, including Hunters and even Scandals—if country music and hot cowboys are your thing.
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Transportation & Airport Transfer
Fort Lauderdale has its own international airport, just a 15-20-minute drive to most parts of the city. Many hotels also offer free shuttle service from the airport, so check before you arrive. If you fly into Miami, you can take the Tri-Rail from the airport to Fort Lauderdale. An Uber or Lyft ride from Miami airport to Fort Lauderdale costs around $25–$35 and takes 30–60 minutes, depending on traffic.
It’s worth noting that Fort Lauderdale isn’t particularly walkable, so you’ll likely need transportation to get around. The city recently introduced a bike-share program, allowing visitors to easily rent a bike to explore. There are numerous stations along the beachfront area, making biking a great alternative to car travel. Visitors can skip the rental car—between biking or taking an Uber or Lyft, you can experience all the city has to offer without the hassle of parking.
Fort Lauderdale Gay Hotels & Resorts
You’ll find gay hotels and resorts in Fort Lauderdale than almost anywhere else. Second perhaps to Palm Springs on the West Coast, Fort Lauderdale boasts roughly 15 gay-specific guesthouses, hotels, and resorts, with accommodations for a variety of budgets.
The W Hotel Fort Lauderdale – Located right on the beach, this hotel offers excellent views from its outdoor terrace overlooking the ocean. The rooftop pool provides panoramic city views as well as views of the Intracoastal Waterway, while the spa offers massages, manicures, and other services. Las Olas Boulevard, with its unique shops and restaurants, is a 15-minute drive away.
Calypso Inn – Located just one block from the center of Wilton Drive, this gay-owned and operated bed and breakfast offers a refreshing alternative to the typical motel or hotel experience. The property features two tropical, clothing-optional lagoon pools, heated during the winter months and open all night.
Clothing-Optional Hotels
The Grand Resort – Located a 10-minute walk from Sebastian Street Gay Beach, this resort has an on-site spa offering massage services, a hair studio, and nail care. The property also features a pool and hot tub. Wilton Manors is nearby, offering numerous gay-friendly restaurants, attractions, and clubs.
Worthington Guesthouse – This all-male, gay resort is five blocks from Fort Lauderdale’s Sebastian Beach. It features a clothing-optional courtyard with two 24-hour pools, a spacious hot tub, and a modern gym. A continental breakfast is served daily.
Pineapple Point – This renowned luxury gay resort has been welcoming guests since 1999. The property features six unique buildings spread over more than two acres of private, lush, clothing-optional tropical paradise. Amenities include shaded hammocks, an on-site well-equipped gym, a lap pool, two jacuzzis, massage studios, sun decks, and clothing-optional pool areas. Guests can enjoy a daily continental breakfast, along with snacks, lemonade, bottled water, popsicles, and refreshing cold face towels.
The Cabanas Guesthouse – Located in Wilton Manors, at the heart of gay Fort Lauderdale, this clothing-optional resort has been voted Best Gay Guesthouse and Best Men’s Day Spa for six consecutive years. The resort offers amenities such as an all-male day spa, two pools, a sauna, jacuzzi, daily breakfast, and more, all set within lush tropical gardens with stunning waterfront views.
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Buy a day pass – Many of the gay-specific hotels and resorts offer day passes to visit their property and use their facilities. Nearly every property has a private, typically clothing-optional, pool and various additional amenities such as spas, fitness centers, restaurants, and more. If staying at a gay property isn’t your style, but you still want to socialize with those who do, this is a perfect way to enjoy the best of both worlds. Day passes usually range from $10 to $35 per day.
Mansions and Water Taxis – Fort Lauderdale is home to many wealthy and famous residents, and several of their elegant mansions are visible from the deck of the Fort Lauderdale Water Taxi. Spend an afternoon taking a scenic ride along the banks of some of the most luxurious homes in the area. Fort Lauderdale is considered one of the yacht capitals of the world, and many yacht owners call this city home.
Hugh Taylor Birch State Park – Located just north of the beachfront area, this park is a great place to escape the city and enjoy nature. Spanning 180 acres, it’s a favorite spot among locals and an ideal option if you’ve had enough beach time. Take a stroll through preserved wilderness areas or rent a bike to explore the park.
Saw Grass Mills Outlet – If you’re a fan of luxury brands, Fort Lauderdale has what you need. About 20 miles outside the city limits, you’ll find this massive outlet shopping center. It’s the largest luxury outlet center in the world, offering popular brands at prices lower than traditional retail stores. The center provides shuttle service from Fort Lauderdale, with pickup available at various Fort Lauderdale Beach hotels.
Gay Tours in Fort Lauderdale
The World AIDS Museum – Located in Wilton Manors, this museum is dedicated to documenting the history of the HIV/AIDS epidemic. Opened in 2013, it is the only museum worldwide devoted solely to sharing this story. Funded entirely by donations, the museum does an incredible job of presenting the deeply emotional history from the beginning to the present. The full tour takes a couple of hours to complete, but it’s worth a brief stop, even if only to view the highlights and appreciate this remarkable tribute to a story that has impacted so many over the past few decades.
Restaurants and Cafes
Rosie’s Bar and Grill – Located in the heart of Wilton Manors, Rosie’s is a staple of the LGBTQ+ community. It’s a place where people gather for Sunday brunch, evening dinner, or weekend cocktails, enjoying a meal or drink among like-minded residents and visitors eager to experience the best of the “gayborhood.” Rosie’s is a must-visit spot, known for its friendly service, great food, and delicious cocktails – it’s sure to impress!
The Yard – An urban oasis in Wilton Manors amid beautiful Rainbow Eucalyptus trees, hosting a variety of cafes and restaurants with great outdoor seating. Favorites include Voo La Voo, Seed of Life Vegan Restaurant, Chateau D'vine Wine, Beer & Tapas, and more. Enjoy The Yard's murals while shopping, eating, and relaxing.
J Mark’s – An informal restaurant featuring a diverse menu of American standards, a spacious patio, and a lively bar.
Peter Pan Diner – Family-owned since 1979, this diner offers a unique menu inspired by the family’s Greek heritage. Chef-prepared specialties are available daily, and most desserts and freshly baked goods are made in-house. Peter Pan Diner never disappoints.
Fort Lauderdale Gay Bars and Clubs
DrYnk – Located in Wilton Manors, this bar boasts the best craft cocktails in town. Comfortable sofas, stylish lighting, and an oasis-like terrace out back give it a relaxed vibe, making it the perfect spot to start a night out.
Lips – Looking for a drag show? This is the place to watch lip-syncing queens perform and entertain a crowd eager for a fun and interactive night out.
Georgie’s Alibi – Enjoy daily happy hours on food and drinks, including 2-for-1 specials, plus a variety of live performances and events.
Infinity Lounge – A relaxed yet sophisticated lounge with a mixed gay and straight crowd and a wide selection of tasty drinks and cocktails.
Pub on the Drive – Formerly the Pub Wilton Manors, this bar now boasts the title of the largest bar in Wilton Manors, thanks to its newly expanded oasis-like patio bar. With a social atmosphere and tasty snacks, it’s a perfect spot for gatherings. Weekly events include bingo and themed trivia nights.
The Manor – The largest and one of the most popular places to dance on weekend nights, featuring a huge main dance room, several smaller spaces, seating areas, and terraces.
Hunters – A popular bar and club with karaoke, cabaret, and country-western dancing. They also host a popular Sunday tea dance.
Scandals – The go-to gay country-western bar, complete with line dancing, cute cowboys, and affordable drinks.
Fort Lauderdale Gay Saunas & Cruising Bars
The Club Fort Lauderdale – Fort Lauderdale’s main sauna is also a great spot to socialize and soak up the sun. Amenities include a sundeck with an outdoor pool, dry sauna, whirlpool, cruising area, cabins, sling, video lounges, and a fully equipped gym. Visitors can pay for a locker or rent a private room (half-price offers are available Tuesday, Thursday, and Friday after 4 pm).
321 Slammer – One of the only clubs of its kind in Florida, offering public and private play areas with slings and glory holes, as well as lounge areas with a pool table and even an indoor fireplace. Note: drinks are not available for purchase.
Gay Beaches in Fort Lauderdale
Sebastian Street Beach – The main and most popular gay beach in Fort Lauderdale, located off Sebastian Street near the Ritz-Carlton. Its proximity to many gay hotels and resorts attracts a large LGBTQ+ crowd.
Northeast 18th Street Beach – A smaller gay beach, often visited by locals.
Haulover Nude Beach – Located between Fort Lauderdale and Miami, this is one of Florida's most famous nude beaches. It’s family-friendly, attracting a mix of LGBTQ+ and straight visitors. Most people go nude, though it’s optional.
Gay Events in Fort Lauderdale
Wicked Manors Halloween celebration – Likely the most popular event of the year, held in Wilton Manors. This outdoor celebration includes parades, concerts, and numerous parties, drawing crowds of local residents, regional visitors, and travelers from afar to join in the festivities.
Pride Fort Lauderdale – Given its large LGBTQ+ community, Fort Lauderdale’s Pride celebration attracts massive crowds, with an average attendance of over 125,000. The two-day festival typically takes place in spring and features a beachside parade and main event with three stages hosting top international acts. As is common in Florida, after-parties are held in Wilton Manors.
Day Trips from Fort Lauderdale
Miami – Often called the unofficial Latin capital of the U.S., Miami is a unique destination famous for its beaches, architecture, and vibrant nightlife. Downtown Miami has recently seen a revival and is also worth visiting, located about a 30-minute drive south without traffic. For Miami Beach, add an extra 15 minutes. During peak times, the trip may take an hour or more. Consider a guided tour or the Tri-rail to avoid traffic.
The Everglades – Experience the wilderness of Florida's Everglades. Join a small-group tour featuring an airboat ride through Everglades National Park, a drive through Big Cypress National Preserve, a nature walk through a cypress forest, and a scenic boat ride through the 10,000 islands of Everglades National Park to spot various wildlife. Book tour →
Key West – Though it’s a bit far, Key West is doable as a day trip. Drive across the famous Seven Mile Bridge spanning the Gulf of Mexico and Atlantic Ocean to reach the Keys, where you can explore the island at your own pace before returning. Travel from Fort Lauderdale to Key West with ease on this full-day tour. Book tour →
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