The City of Love needs no introduction to the world stage. Paris is undeniably one of the most famous cities in the world and the most visited in Europe. France's capital is a testament to everything the country is proud of: enriching culture, effortless chic, and a desire to live in the moment. You can see it in the iconic spectacle of the Eiffel Tower and the renowned art within the halls of the Louvre. You can see it in the chic cafés of Montmartre and the fancy restaurants filled with lovers on the banks of the River Seine. You can even see it in the thriving gay scene found in Le Marais. Check out these 100 tips for visiting Paris,, with great info on Parisian culture and useful insights into the city.

Whether you’re a lover of fine art, a lover of delicious cuisine, a lover of good wine, or just a lover full stop, there’s always something new—or old—for you to discover in Paris. You could easily spend weeks here and still not experience half of what's on offer. That’s a solid reason to keep going back for more—just like one should with a good lover.

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Table of Contents

1. General Tips
2. Transportation & Airport Transfer
3. Gay Hotels in Paris
4. Sightseeing & Activities in Paris
5. Gay Tours in Paris
6. Restaurants & Cafes
7. Paris Gay Bars and Clubs
8. Paris Gay Saunas & Cruising  Bars
9. Gay Events in Paris
10. Day Trips from Paris

General Tips

Paris has a vibrant nightlife, but the party scene is constantly changing, with many pop-up parties around town. Remember that soirées start around midnight and don’t get busy until 2 a.m. Be sure to check their websites for dates and details. Although we’ve been to Paris several times, we haven’t explored all the Paris gay bars as in-depth as other cities. To help you, we’ve asked our friends Bryan and Craig from The Gay Locals to share their best recommendations in the bars and clubs sections. We appreciate their intimate knowledge of the gay scene and hope their suggestions come in handy. Visit them online, check out their excellent reviews on TripAdvisor, or follow them on Facebook, Twitter or Instagram.

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Transportation & Airport Transfer

Paris boasts a developed and user-friendly public transport system, including the subway, regional trains, buses, and bike-sharing services. The subway, or “metro,” is likely the easiest way to get around town, as it covers just about everywhere. You can explore to your heart’s content before returning to your choice of the French capital's finest short term rentals,, for example. Tickets can be purchased at any metro station using automated machines that accept debit cards or coins. Make sure to grab a copy of the metro map or download the app to help navigate. Check out this guide for detailed information on how to use all public transportation options in Paris.

Paris has three main airports: Charles de Gaulle and Orly, which are the primary international airports, and Beauvais-Tillé Airport, located about an hour outside Paris and served by budget airlines. The RER line B (regional train) links Paris and Charles de Gaulle (10€ and 30 minute ride) while Orly is best served by RER line B then connecting to the OrlyVal train. (12€ and a 35 min ride). Beauvais-Tillé Airport is served by express bus for 16€. Several buses, including Airport Express buses, also link both of the main airports to the city.

Gay Hotels in Paris

Luxury

Jules & Jim – Conveniently located next to the Metro station between the Marais quarter and Place de la République, the hotel has been renovated from an old 19th-century house. It features 48 suites and rooms, a spa, a Michelin-starred gourmet restaurant with a garden terrace, and a Library Bar – just to name a few of its facilities. Enjoy breakfast in bed if you really want to spoil yourself!

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Mid-Range

Hotel Original – This delightful boutique hotel is superbly located just 2 km from Notre Dame. Prepare to enter a world of poetry and fantasy. Also, head downstairs to enjoy their beautiful stone-arched spa for an hour as part of your stay—complete with a saltwater flotarium and sauna.

Cosy's Residence Cadet – If you're traveling with your pet, this could be the solution to your accommodation dilemma. Additionally, this contemporary hotel receives high marks for its location (200 m from the Cadet Metro), service, cleanliness, and room quality. Guests can even prepare their own meals—should they choose—in a charming kitchenette.

Chambre d´Amis – This centrally located, beautiful guesthouse is both convenient and LGBTQ+ friendly. It comes with a balcony, all the amenities of a guesthouse, and even a handy shuttle option to and from the airport.

Budget

Hotel Amour – This hotel is perfect for lovers, as one might expect from the name. The rooms are beautifully decorated to enhance a romantic stay, including huge bathtubs to…do whatever you please with. It features its own bar, restaurant (serving a tasty breakfast or brunch), a glass-enclosed courtyard, a plant-filled back garden, and a rooftop pool. It was voted Best Boutique Hotel in 2013 at the Qualitelis Client Contest.

Hotel Paris Saint Honore – A gay-owned hotel located at 21 rue de Penthièvre, conveniently just 300 meters from the Louvre Museum. It's a bit bare-bones, but sometimes simplicity is best, and prices include a buffet breakfast.

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Sightseeing & Activities in Paris

Eiffel Tower – There is no monument in the world more iconic than the Eiffel Tower. Built by Gustave Eiffel for the 1889 World's Fair, it stands 330 meters tall, offering the amazing views of the city you would expect, from three accessible levels. Those with the cash to splash can enjoy romantic fine dining at the first and second levels or simply take in the stunning panoramic vistas from the top observation deck. And if it’s open, check out the secret museum at the top! Honestly though – as the most visited monument in the world – the queues can be lengthy, but beneath the tower, you can get a good look at it for free in the sprawling Champ de Mars and Trocadéro Gardens. At night, it gets especially romantic as the tower sparkles with a dazzling light show. Book tour →

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The Catacombs – Your taxi driver may refer to this as Les Carrieres de Paris but whatever you call it, just make sure you see this exclusive Paris subterranean world. Located beneath the city, this underground ossuary houses the remains of over six million Parisians, arranged in hauntingly artistic displays. Originally created in the late 18th century to address overcrowded cemeteries, the Catacombs stretch for miles, though only a small section is open to visitors. Descend 131 steps into the dimly lit tunnels to explore this fascinating historical site. Informative plaques detail its history and the macabre artistry. Tickets often sell out, so booking in advance is recommended. Book tour →

The Louvre – The Eiffel Tower of museums, the Louvre is the biggest art museum in the world. Housed in a stunning former royal palace, it features over 35,000 works spanning centuries of art and history. Of course it has all the iconic masterpieces like the Mona Lisa, Venus de Milo, and Winged Victory of Samothrace, but also diverse collections ranging from ancient Egyptian artifacts to Renaissance paintings. The glass pyramid entrance is a modern architectural marvel and is a mandatory photo location. Book tour →

Musee d'Orsay – Paris's second most visted art museum is sure to leave an impression…because it's famous for its Impressionist and Post-Impressionist art. Bad joke aside the museum within a beautifully restored Beaux-Arts railway station along the Seine, boasts an exceptional collection of 19th- and early 20th-century art, including iconic works by masters such as Monet, Van Gogh, Renoir, Degas, and Cézanne. Its striking architecture, featuring a massive clock overlooking the river, further adds to its charm. Book tour →

Notre Dame Cathedral – Notre Dame Cathedral is an iconic masterpiece of Gothic architecture and a monument to French resilience. It has quickly been restored since the 2019 fire and is once more open to visitors – although some parts remain under restoration. Visitors are free to explore its richly decorated interior, marvel at its towering vaulted ceilings, and view its historic relics. For panoramic views of Paris, climb the 387 steps to the top of its towers, where you’ll find the famous gargoyles . no hunchback though.

Luxembourg Gardens – There's no shortage of romantic parks in Paris, perfect for a wine and cheese picnic, but the Luxembourg Gardens are some of the prettiest. Spanning 25 hectares, they feature meticulously manicured lawns, vibrant flowerbeds, and charming tree-lined promenades. At its center is the elegantly grandiose Medici Fountain.

Arc de Triomphe Another iconic landmark, the majestic arch honors those who fought and died for France during the Revolutionary and Napoleonic Wars. Standing at the western end of the Champs-Élysées, beneath the arch lies the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier, with an eternal flame commemorating fallen soldiers. There is also a rooftop observation deck, accessible after climbing 284 steps.  Book tour →

Sacred Heart Basilica of Montmartre (Sacre-Coeur) – This iconic basilica sits at the city's highest point, meaning it offers some of the best panoramic views of the city from its terrace and dome. Built in the early 20th century, its Romano-Byzantine architecture and intricate mosaics, including the famous Christ in Majesty, are impressive to say the least. Visitors can enjoy the peaceful interior or explore the charming Montmartre neighborhood filled with artists, cafes, and cobblestone streets. There is also no better place to enjoy a Parisian sunset. Book tour →

Pont des Arts – A pedestrian-only bridge crossing the Seine River, it was originally built as the first metal bridge in Paris during the early 19th century, though the current bridge was reconstructed in the 1980s. For couples, the romantic tradition involves locking a padlock on the railing of the bridge with your names and/or dates, then throwing the key into the river as a symbol of your everlasting love. While these love locks have been removed in the past, and city officials—and even some Parisians—are not particularly fond of the gesture, many people still continue to partake in the tradition.

Shakespeare and Co – The most famous book shop in the world, Shakespeare and Co was opened in 1951 by the eccentric George Whitman and his bookshop has been a gathering place for a wealth of legendary writers over the years, from Ernest Hemingway to T.S Eliot. The shop is beautiful but what makes Shakespeare and Co so unique is that aspiring writers are permitted to sleep in the alcoves around the shop. To this day up to six guests – affectionately known as ‘tumbleweeds’ – are permitted to sleep there.

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Gay Tours in Paris

The Gay Locals – Bryan and Craig are expats who have lived in Paris for years and know the ins and outs of everything. They’ve been working as guides for a number of years and have recently extended their offerings to feature tours for LGBTQ+ visitors. More than just city guides, they have intimate knowledge of the gay scene, like which bars and clubs are best and which places to avoid. They offer private gay tours and twice-weekly group tours in Paris, focusing on neighborhoods like the Marais, the Canal St. Martin, the Latin Quarter, Montmartre, or the old market neighborhood Les Halles. They’ll help you explore the city, local culture, and gastronomy in a city packed with interesting history. Book tour →

Paris Highlights with an LGBTQ Perspective Private Tour – See the best of Paris through an LGBTQ+ lens with Queer Tours France. Compact and just two and a half hours long, you'll pass through Paris' main sights, such as Concorde Square, the Champs-Elysées, the Arc de Triomphe, Tuileries Gardens, the Opera House, and much more, while learning about the cast of queer characters who helped make Paris what it is today. Along the way, you'll also uncover a few of Paris' secret spots most tourists miss, all with their own LGBTQ+ stories associated with them. Book tour →

Louvre Museum Highlights and LGBTQ+ History Tour – There's always queer art and history concealed within any gallery, and the Louvre is no exception. Join Queer Tours France for a three-hour exploration of the museum, where an expert guide will unveil the queer identities of renowned artists and the subtle nuances hidden within their works – from the Sphinx of Tanis to the Venus de Milo to the Mona Lisa herself!  Book tour →

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Restaurants & Cafes

Titi Palacio – Besides having a rather entertaining name, this restaurant is an urban greenhouse that serves modern cuisine with a French twist. It’s bright, trendy, and a great place for a cocktail with your food. Titi Palacio also hosts a range of events, from concerts and DJ sets to karaoke and drag shows – maybe that’s where the name comes from!

Hémicycle – This restaurant is a classy three-floor establishment. The bottom floor is the main restaurant, where they serve gourmet cuisine with Italian influences. Upstairs is a rather pretty wine room, and on the top floor, you’ll find a speakeasy-style hidden bar with a romantic atmosphere – making for the perfect nightcap after a good meal.

Le Lobby, The Peninsula Paris – A famous Parisian location, where many celebrities – from Picasso to Igor Stravinsky – have frequented over the years. It’s easy to see why, as the place oozes pure class with exquisite French cuisine, grandiose paintings, magnificent chandeliers, and impeccably dressed waiters. Perhaps not cheap on the wallet, but it sure makes you feel like French aristocracy while dining there.

Restaurant 6 New York –  If you really want to feel like you’re in the heart of Paris as you dine, then this chic yet homely restaurant offers a view of the Eiffel Tower from its windows. The food is delicious French cuisine with a modern flair – created by the famous local chef Jérôme Gangneux.

Au Diable des Lombards – Average prices and an awesome place – with a casual Parisian street vibe – to stop for lunch if you're “out and about” in Les Halles. They serve burgers and tapas to enjoy with a sneaky midday drink.

The Little Red Door Paris – A playfully sassy cocktail bar that also serves some nibbles. The bartenders are friendly and give great advice. We met a particularly nice one in Piotr – a cute Polish guy with many interesting stories to tell.

Des Gars Dans La Cuisine – Every course is a delectable, enjoyable surprise (especially the pavlova or the black rice with scallops). Beautiful atmosphere with chic decor, stone walls, and candlelight.

Who's Restaurant and Bar – The restaurant area welcomes you every night, featuring “homemade” and fresh products; dishes range from €15 to €28. Brunch is served Saturday and Sunday from 11:00 a.m.

TATA Burger – A kitschy burger place with surprisingly good food. Order the double cheeseburger, and it might just come out on a penis-shaped bun.

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Paris Gay Bars and Clubs

Cox Café Bar – All you need to do is grow out a bit of facial hair to hang out with the guys over beers as the crowd spills onto the sidewalk. Friendly and open, it’s a bar to try at least once while in Paris

Duplex Bar – The oldest gay bar in the Marais, where you can find affordable wine and beer served to expats, preps, bikers, and hipsters. A truly eclectic mix! And…this place also hosts rotating art shows, meaning you can count it as a cultural outing. So utilitarian.

Les Souffleurs – A bit of a dive bar. Slightly hidden but hip and trendy, it’s all about modernity, refinement, and relaxation. Have a drink upstairs before heading down to the small dance floor, where the DJ spins all sorts of pop and techno music.

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FreedJ – The ground floor is more loungy than a dance floor. Head downstairs to the basement, where the DJ plays Gaga and Rihanna tracks that keep people moving. A glassed-in smoking room caters to those who still indulge.

Le Cud – The party gets going around 2 a.m. at this gay club in Paris. This is the ultimate late-night stop for the gay Paris vacationer. The ground floor has a few seats and a bar, but the large vaulted cellar is the big draw. Expect to leave accompanied when the metro opens up at 5:30 a.m.

La Boîte à Frissons – If you arrive too early, you wouldn’t know it’s a gay club. But head here late, and you’ll find one of the city’s friendliest, most fun, and most laid-back dance floors on weekend nights. All ages, all gay-friendly genders, heteros, all styles of dance, and all types of music (except techno) until 5 a.m. The club is located in a building known as Le Tango. Watch for theme nights!

Crazyvores / Folivores – This must-attend monthly party is held at the historic theater called The Bataclan. A large dance floor is perfect for dancing with friends or looking for a cute boy. It’s a mixed crowd with some girls, but mostly a place for guys to let loose.

Doctor Love – This party is held at Club Haussmann near Paris’s grand boulevards. You can expect to have your photo taken by Dr. Mylène, the woman who organizes this monthly party. Dress down but look good, as the crowd tends to be a little trendier than most.

Paris Gay Saunas & Cruising  Bars

L'Impact – €16 entrance, or €10 if you’re under 30. The downstairs portion awaits you and, well, whatever you want to do. Check their website for special evenings, like 2×1 night or Tuesday’s “Horse Men” soirée.

Secteur X – Free entrance and nice bartenders. Lots of surprises downstairs – condoms and lube are readily available. You can enter clothed, but you probably won’t stay that way.

Le Depot –This bar charges €15 for entrance. It may not be free, but it boasts Paris’s (and perhaps Europe’s) largest backroom. All sorts of naughty deeds happen in the rooms and halls of this labyrinth.

Sun City – A very popular and huge 100% gay sauna in Paris. There are three floors of saunas, wet rooms, and cruising areas. The decor is stunning, as are the men!

Gay Events in Paris

Marche des Fiertes LGBT (Paris gay pride) – One of the most exciting cities to celebrate LGBTQ+ Pride is Paris. Liza Minnelli certainly thought so in 2009. The event takes place during the last week of June, with a huge parade beginning at the Michel Bizot station and passing through Place de la République, Avenue Daumesnil, Rue de Lyon, Boulevard Beaumarchais, and Boulevard du Temple. Afterward, the whole city comes to life with wild street parties.

Day Trips from Paris

VersaillesOn the outskirts of Paris lies the unassuming village of Versailles. The village itself, however, is dwarfed by the monumental architectural splendor that is the Palace of Versailles. The epic building grew from being a simple hunting lodge into Europe’s largest chateaux and the seat of French political power in the 17th century. The palace has over 2,300 rooms and halls to explore, filled with royal artifacts and exquisite art, but don't miss the water shows and gardens too.  Book tour →

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Giverny Just over an hour west from Paris is the seemingly quaint village of Giverny. The village is so stunningly idyllic that it has been the muse of many artists over the centuries – the most famous of which being the founder of French impressionist painting, Claude Monet. He found the village so impressive in fact that he lived in a house there for 43 years. The house can be visited to this day and the interior has the unusual features of being both pink-plastered and still containing all the furniture and layout from when Monet was alive. This and the surrounding gardens make it an essential day trip. Book tour →

Mont Saint Michel – Perhaps not doable in a day due to the long journey, but still worth the visit. This iconic UNESCO World Heritage Site, perched on a tidal island, offers stunning medieval architecture and sweeping views. From Paris, take a train to Pontorson (around 3.5 hours) followed by a quick bus ride to the abbey. Explore the cobblestone streets, quaint shops, and the awe-inspiring abbey atop the hill. Consider guided tours to enrich your visit with historical insights. Book tour →

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