Washington, D.C., the heartbeat of American democracy, pulses with history, power, and inspiration. Majestic monuments rise against the skyline: the towering Washington Monument, the dignified Lincoln Memorial, and the iconic U.S. Capitol. Cherry blossoms blanket the Tidal Basin each spring, and vibrant neighbourhoods like Georgetown are abuzz with the energy of counterculture and multiculturism. Even though it is best known as the home of the federal government, and the capital city of the United States, it has much more to offer tourists interested in exploring the area’s history. Entertainment, shopping, dining, and other recreational opportunities abound; there is certainly something for everyone in the District of Columbia.
Aside from the chance to see the U.S. government at work, the city is full of museums and monuments sure to appeal to the history buff in all of us. The Smithsonian Institute calls Washington DC home and offers individual museums for the exploration of Natural History, Art, Air and Space, and American History. Also, in late 2016, the Smithsonian Institute opened its latest museum, the National Museum of African American History. It's fair to say Washington DC is the place to go to combine education and entertainment into a unique vacation that is sure to stick with you.
One of the top destinations in the city is the White House, but families can also enjoy places like the National Zoo – home to such legendary animal characters as the panda, Bei Bei. Festivals are commonplace with celebrations ranging from the Chinese New Year events to the National Cherry Blossom Festival to the Smithsonian Folklife Festival.
Table of Contents
1. General Tips
2. Transportation & Airport Transfer
3, Gay Hotels in Washington DC
4. Sightseeing & Activities in Washington DC
5. Tours in Washington DC
6. Restaurants and Cafes in Washington DC
7. Washington DC Gay Bars and Clubs
8. Washington DC Gay Sauna's and Cruising Bars
9. Gay Events in Washington DC
10. Day Trips from Washington DC
General Tips
Washington DC always has something to offer so that you can enjoy a variety of events throughout the year. For those interested in attending the Cherry Blossom Festival, aim for late March or early April. Similarly, the Capital Pride Celebration is scheduled in early/mid-June.
If you are planning to come for the museums, any time of year can be right as long as you are prepared for the weather. The low season is traditionally in the winter, meaning many attractions will be less busy. However, the area can have harsh winters, including snow and freezing temperatures. If you aren’t used to hot, humid weather, it is best to avoid Washington DC during the heat of summer.
In most cases, spring and fall are the busiest tourist seasons as the weather supports being outdoors. Whether you are touring the zoo or walking between museums, you’ll be much more comfortable from September to November and from March to May.
For those looking for their ideal neighborhood, the Shaw district has become one of the newest “it” neighborhoods in the area. This section of the city is trendy, but still feels authentic, and offers a range of bars, cafes, and breweries to enjoy. For those looking for something more upscale, Logan Circle has an elegant feel, with chic boutiques and wine bars to match. Columbia Heights has a strong Latino and hipster population, providing a mix of ethnic restaurants and quirky taverns.
If you are looking for nightlife, then the U Street Corridor should be your destination. Once known as “Black Broadway,” the area was reborn into a haven for creatures of the night. Music and clubs abound, along with a variety of restaurants. For those looking for great gay hangouts, your best bets are the U Street Corridor, Dupont Circle, and Logan Circle.
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Transportation & Airport Transfer
Washington DC is home to a host of transportation options. You can quickly get around town using the vast metro system. Whether you prefer bus or rail, you can find a way to get from point A to point B with relative ease. You can use the trip planner online for exact directions and timing or browse the metro rail and bus transit maps for a custom adventure.
Metro fares vary depending on your starting point and destination, as well as the time of day. Children under four can ride for free with a paying adult, and those 65 and over are eligible for reduced fares through the SmarTrip card service. The SmarTrip card also offers discounts for transfers and connections during the same two hour period. Currently, no day pass is available, so you will need to budget properly to manage the expense associated with bus or rail transportation options. Uber is also a great way to get around DC.
Washington DC is home to three major airports including Ronald Reagan Washington National Airport, Washington Dulles International Airport, and Baltimore/Washington International Thurgood Marshall Airport.
Reagan National Airport is home to its own metro stop, providing connections to the blue or yellow line. If you get a SmarTrip card, your maximum cost into DC on the rail system will be less than $6. A taxi from Reagan National Airport to downtown will run between $15 and $20, depending on your exact destination.
Dulles Airport has an exclusive deal with Washington Flyer taxi. Stands are located outside the main terminal, and rides into downtown will cost around $60 to $70, making this a more expensive option than those available through Reagan. However, the taxi service also has a Silver Line Express Bus that can take travelers to the nearby Wiehle-Reston East rail station for $5. Then, the rail portion of the trip would cost no more than $6.
Though considered a Washington DC airport, Baltimore/Washington International is technically located in Baltimore. Amtrak trains are available to bring travelers into DC, with a reserved seat costing between $15 and $30.
If you're flying out of DC and need a hotel near the airport because of an early morning flight the best option will be Reagan National Airport (DCA) although now the Dulles airport is connected with the Metro, making it a solid second choice. Most tourists will choose DCA because of its close proximity to DC and an abundance of good hotels near DCA. Staying in Crystal City near DCA will make it easy to take the Metro to your hotel and catch the hotel shuttle to the airport in the morning. With the Metro connecting to Dulles it will be a lot easier to manage getting to the airport. Even if you're on a bus, predicting the traffic to Dulles from DC can jeopardize an on-time arrival.
Car rentals are available at all three airports, but a car is not required to enjoy the Washington DC area. With that in mind, it may be wise to skip the rental car and rely on public transit or other options instead.
Gay Hotels in Washington DC
There aren’t many gay hotels in Washington DC, but there are many gay-friendly options. There is one gay B&B at the end of this list.
Luxury
The Hay-Adams Hotel – This is the type of accommodation where you might expect to find visiting dignitaries. You too can feel like a senator or regal royalty while making this your temporary home. The lush surroundings are most definitely dressed to impress.
Mayflower Renaissance – Because it’s right across from the White House, this hotel is referred to as the “White House Hotel”. That, and its walking distance location from the gay hoods of Logan and DuPont, and The Mall, make it highly desirable. Watch out for politician sightings (not all of them highly desirable, however).
The Mansion on O Street – This wacky hotel is an opportunity to push the proverbial boat out and have a truly unique experience. Inspired by the camp classic Night in the Museum, this five-star hotel – found in the gay district – is exactly like staying the night in a museum. Each of the hundred rooms are unique: you might find anything from a shower made of an English telephone box to a sarcophagi table or a host of other oddities in your room. There are even seventy hidden doors around the property to explore.
Mid Range
Hotel Monaco – After National Mall walking and shopping till you’re dropping, both you and your pet (the 4-legged kind as well) can find something on the room service menu, be pampered with an in-room spa treatment, and partake in a hosted wine reception. Spend a little extra for that plush robe at the spa.
The Beacon – Only a mile from the White House and a quick walk to the metro station, this hotel offers on-site dining options such as a D.C. view enhanced Seasonal Bar and an American restaurant for the casual diner. After eating out, work out in the fitness center.
Lyle DC – Right in the heart of DuPont Center, this gay-friendly, happening hotel is conveniently close to many of D.C.’s best attractions. A perfect fit with the gay scene, it is both elegant and charming with outstanding amenities.
Hotel Zena, a Viceroy Urban Retreat – A short distance from the Walter E. Washington Convention Center and the metro station, this upscale and ultramodern hotel offers gaming systems and bikes for rental. Eat at a chic bar & lounge that serves a selection of small New-American plates, or appreciate the incredible city view from the roof’s trendy cocktail lounge and seasonal pool.
Motto by Hilton Washington DC City Center – a micro-hotel brand by Hilton with space not larger than 150 square feet, these “travel-size” rooms are for those who want to get out and enjoy the city – not sit and waste away in their room. Not to worry – the hotel also has plenty of space for their Crimson Diner & Coffee Bar, Crimson View rooftop bar, and Crimson Whiskey Bar.
Budget
HighRoad Hostel DC – Here, bathrooms are shared, dorms sleep 4-12 mixed and single-sex occupants, and the setting is basic Victorian row-house. There are also some spartan private rooms for the squeamish. Dorms include bunk beds, reading lights, and lockers.
U Street Capsule Hotel – Made with millennials in mind, this capsule hostel is made for those who want to get out and enjoy the city – not sit and waste away in their room. The capsules, however, are surprisingly cosey and great for those who want to stay in a hostel but love their privacy. Its ideally located for sightseeing being only 2.1 km from Walter E Washington Convention Centre, 3.1 km from White House and 3.4 km from Washington Monument.
Guest Houses / B&B
Malolo B&B – The theme here is casual South Pacific. Mornings feature a breakfast bar served in a cozy dining area. Additional perks include shuttle service to the train, metro, and airport, a beautiful deck and garden, guest lounge, and loaner cell phones. Through prior arrangement, cooking classes and dinners are also available.
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The White House – Is there a more enduring symbol of American democracy than the home of every U.S. president since John Adams? This iconic neoclassical residence offers visitors a glimpse into the heart of American history and governance. Taking a tour is the best way to explore its historic corridors, and thanks to former First Lady Michelle Obama, visitors can now take their own photos during their White House tour—a privilege that was strictly off-limits for years! Book tour →
The Capitol Building – The building is famous for its history. Adults and children alike can learn to better understand America’s government and its workings through a tour. Advanced tickets can be obtained through your congressional representative. They may also supply you with tickets to visit both house chambers. Good food at good prices is available at the cafeteria on the bottom floor. Book tour →
Washington Monument – Towering 555 feet over the National Mall, this striking marble obelisk honors George Washington, the nation’s first president. Take a walk around the Reflecting Pool and the surrounding lawns to fully appreciate this testament to the indomitable spirit of America. Book tour →
Lincoln Memorial – Located over at the west end of the National Mall, this majestic structure honors Abraham Lincoln, the 16th president and champion of freedom. Ascend the grand steps to view the massive seated statue, a powerful symbol of unity and resolve. Take it all in as you read his inspiring words etched into the walls—the Gettysburg Address and Second Inaugural Address. Book tour →
Thomas Jefferson Memorial – A tribute to one of America’s Founding Fathers, can be found along the serene Tidal Basin. This iconic neoclassical monument, inspired by Jefferson's love for Roman architecture, features a majestic dome and a striking bronze statue of Jefferson surrounded by his most powerful words. Stroll beneath the grand columns, soak in panoramic waterfront views, and visit during cherry blossom season to really have your mind blown. Book tour →
Arlington Cemetery – Tours are available to view Arlington’s rich history. Whether you imagine the stories housed here, reflect on the names engraved on headstones, wander throughout the monuments, enjoy the beautiful landscape, or witness the time-honored ceremonies, you will forever remember your visit to Arlington. Book tour →
Library of Congress – Tours are also available for this, the largest library in the world and oldest federal cultural institution in the United States.
National Air & Space Museum – This museum houses the world’s largest collection of historic spacecraft and aircraft. Here you can experience the larger-than-life world of space travel and aviation, run your hands over moon rocks and see the 1903 Wright Flyer.
National Museum of African American History & Culture – Through interactive exhibitions you can explore the history of African American culture. Revel in this specific history with the aid of unique experiences and opportunities.
International Spy Museum – For something completely different, head to this interactive museum near L'Enfant Plaza, which delves into the secretive lives of spies through cutting-edge exhibits and authentic gadgets. Discover everything from Cold War intrigue to modern-day cyber-espionage, test your own undercover skills with hands-on activities, decode real-world intelligence challenges, and explore artifacts from spy operations around the globe.
US Holocaust Memorial Museum – See for yourself how, even through unimaginable atrocities and horrors, there were many acts of courage and bravery by countless individuals, both non-Jews and Jews. Starting with the rise of power of the Nazis, the museum is laid out in chronological order.
Bureau of Engraving – The best place to learn all there is to know about America’s paper currency. While you walk the production floor, you will observe the printing of millions of dollars. The experience takes about 40 minutes with the tour, gallery, and film. Do they hand out free samples? Sadly no, but some currency products are for sale.
Adams Morgan – Quite the contrast to the all the towering monuments and museums, this area has colorful streets lined with mural-adorned buildings, unique boutiques, and quirky shops. By day, enjoy global cuisine from cozy cafes and restaurants offering everything from Ethiopian injera to Salvadoran pupusas. By night, the neighborhood transforms with live music venues, rooftop bars, and buzzing dance clubs. Visit the iconic Madam’s Organ for a taste of its funky, soulful vibe. Don’t miss the Sunday farmers’ market, brimming with local produce and artisanal goods.
Tours in Washington DC
Carpe DC Food Tour – Attention all Foodies! Take the Shaw Neighborhood Tour, or (currently available) the African American Foodways Tours while eating your way through some of the best culinary stops in D.C. Food, culture, and history all rolled into one. Book tour →
Bike and Roll Tour – A truly unique way to learn the history and see the Capital City. Bikes and Segways allow you to explore the National Mall, Smithsonian, Mount Vernon Estate, Monuments, and the Lincoln Memorial. Book tour →
DC Design Tour – Through six fascinating neighborhoods… From Brutalist to Neo-Classical… learn the history behind the mortar and brick on one of the best architecture focused walking tours in the Washington D.C. area. Book tour →
Pride History Tour – DC Pride Walks offers a 2.5-hour, name-your-own-price walking tour that uncovers the history of DC's queer community. Explore iconic sights while learning about DC's LGBTQ+ history, including cruising, the Lavender Scare, drag, the AIDS crisis, Black queer spaces, activism, and much more. The tour is available on various dates throughout the year, with additional dates in June. Book tour →
Restaurants and Cafes in Washington DC
Annie’s Paramount Steakhouse – DC’s gayborhood iconic gay restaurant. Home of over-sized salads, steaks, and huge fries – your basic comfort food – in an updated and seriously queer steakhouse. Annie’s cavernous interior has an upstairs that is now a swanky lounge. Traditionally the best seat in the house… an expansive view of the 17th Street gay cruising crowd from a table in the front room.
Three Fifty Bakery and Coffee Bar – A thoroughly gay-friendly café in the center, offering artisanal treats and expertly brewed coffee. Known for its warm ambiance and friendly vibe, this café serves a delectable array of freshly baked pastries, including buttery croissants, muffins, cookies, seasonal specials, and the best banana bread in town.
The Coupe – This sleek, 24/7 coffeehouse & lounge serves up specialty cocktails, milkshakes, American gastropub fare. Prices can range between $11 and $30, all depending on whether you’re in the mood for a snack or full meal.
The Diner – Retro-style eatery serves creative comfort food 24/7, with full bar, homemade desserts & shakes. Great comfort food served up by experienced staff and, yes, there’s a Happy Hour!
Dukes’ Grocery – Kick back and enjoy at this comfy, double level East London-inspired hangout offering craft-cocktails and farm-fresh cuisine. Past guests highly recommend the “Brunchie Burger”. The patio even welcomes dog lovers.
Amsterdam Falafel Shop – open until 2:30 in the morning, this is the best restaurant in Washington DC for falafel sandwiches (build your own with your choice of 22 toppings), fries, and more.
Afterwords Café – Open until 1:00 am, this is a landmark indie cafe and bookstore with a menu of draft beer, wine, and upscale American fare. From neighbors to tourists, the political elite to college students, at Kramerbooks & Afterwords, you’ll find something for everyone.
Barcelona – Wine and Spanish small plates in elegant yet rustic digs with outdoor and courtyard fireplaces. The chef here believes in keeping it simple, sensible, and sustainable.
Red Hen – With a large bar and open kitchen, this American restaurant with Italian influence (located in the historic Bloomingdale neighborhood) creatively serves, wood-fired Italian eats in an airy, rustic-industrial atmosphere.
The Iron Gate Inn – The courtyard only serves to enhance this swanky spot, offering not just a tasting menu but Greek and Italian small plates. Its historic carriageway houses the bar and dining area, while the grapevine clad courtyard offers an awning allowing for protected, nearly year-round outdoor dining.
Washington DC Gay Bars and Clubs
JR’s – With friendly bartenders, campy videos, and great drink specials, this D.C 17th Street icon is located right in the very heart of gay-town. Whether you come to play “pin the tail on the closeted Republican Hill staffers,” or are just looking for a casual place to enjoy a cocktail, this Washington DC gay bar is packed with potential 7 days a week.
Nellie’s Sports Bar– Not in the middle of the gay scene but definitely worthwhile, Nellie’s offers summers-on-the-roof, poker tournaments, drag luck buffets, drag bingo, trivia night, outdoor patio, and big screen TVs.
Green Lantern – Perfect for your Average Gay Joe, this bar is popular even though it’s a tad off the beaten path. Each 2nd Sunday of the month features Tea Dances. Other attractions include theme parties – like underwear night, Thursday’s 10-11pm shirtless-guys-drink-free, and more.
Number Nine DC – Serving creative cocktails and classics, this plush, new D.C. bar has nightly happy hour specials until 9pm, cocktail masters behind the bar, plenty of plush seating and is housed in the center of Logan Circle in a 2-level, re-purposed, and fully renovated setting.
Little Gay Pub – This new bar is exactly as advertised—little, gay, and a pub! This new bar exudes a warm neighborhood feel with comfortable leather seats, an elegant marble-top bar, eye-catching artwork on the walls, and friendly bar staff. During the day, it’s the perfect spot to grab a coffee, while at night, it transforms into a hub for top-notch cocktails. Despite its petite size, the stunning mural of a phone box on its side makes it impossible to miss.
League of Her Own – There are nowhere bear enough lesbian bars in the US, but D.C is lucky enough to have this lesbian sports bar with a great atmosphere, lively dancefloor and good music.
Bunker – This new club only opened its doors in 2023 to DC's thankful LGBTQ+ community, who had been starving for a place to dance since all the gay clubs closed during the COVID epidemic. Bunker is an underground dance club. No, really. It is quite literally underground! To enter you pass through a thick steel door and descend to a huge dance floor with two bars – all with a fallout shelter vibe, thus the name. Expect the best international DJs, drag queens and even a happy hour.
Washington DC Gay Sauna's and Cruising Bars
The Crew Club – Reportedly one of the cleanest bathhouses you can find, offering guy on guy cardio and workout equipment, a technogym, hydro-massage bed, tanning, huge lounges, gang showers, a Finnish sauna, Maze steam room, and an utterly fabulous staff. Open all day, every day – so pop in for a “work out” whenever you fancy.
Gay Events in Washington DC
Capital Pride – Every May/early June the capital of the US holds its own huge Pride, which is a full week of events. The opening party takes place on the first Friday then festivals and concerts run throughout the week to culminate in the Capitol Pride Parade on the last Saturday. WorldPride comes to Washington, DC from May 23 to June 8, 2025. So be sure to save the date!
DC Black Pride – One of the nation’s largest African-American Pride events, attracting more than 50,000 participants, DC Black Pride takes place in Washington, DC in late May – the dates for this year are May 26 to May 29, 2017. But book way in advance! It’s also Memorial Day Weekend.
Cherry DC – a legendary dance weekend taking place at different venues throughout the year. Dance, vogue, pose and walk into Cherry’s 25+ years of houses of ball culture, extravaganza and glamorous escape from reality! Beyond the definition of circuit. It is also one of the longest all volunteer non-profit LGBTQIA Dance Music Festivals, which gives its profits to benefitting mental health and HIV/Aids service organisations. Nothing quite like partying for a good cause!
Day Trips from Washington DC
Alexandria – This is a great combo – the Mt. Vernon/Old Alexandria day trip. Galleries, theaters, and more history than you ever thought possible! From Union Station, take the M Red, then M Yellow (or M Blue), then a very short walk to get Alexandria. The entire trip takes roughly 35-45 minutes. Tours involve restaurants, art galleries, and cruises. Book tour →
Gettysburg – Civil War buffs simply cannot miss this opportunity. The trip is over 11 hours by bus, so you may want to rent a car for a far shorter 1.5 – 2-hour drive. And if you’re also a fan of the paranormal, this violently influenced land has numerous haunted tours. Educational and creepy… perfect! Book tour →
Annapolis – If sailing is your passion, this is a must-do day trip. Beware the tourist-trap “antique” shops… unless, of course, you’ve been searching in vain for that perfect, one of a kind, utterly fantastic tchotchke. In that case, fire up the credit card. You can drive US 50 most of the way for about 45 minutes, or save yourself the hassle and bus it from Union Station – take 2 buses or 3, depending on your preference – which will take you roughly 1.5 – 1.75 hours. Book tour →
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