Palm Springs has been an LGBTQ+ getaway for decades, dating back to the glamorous days of Hollywood in the early 1930s. Actors working in Hollywood would escape to Palm Springs, just a two-hour drive away, to let loose and mingle with other closeted members of the entertainment industry. Today, Palm Springs may have a reputation as a destination primarily for middle-aged or retired visitors, but don’t be fooled, Palm Springs remains a playground for all generations. Especially during major events like gay pride, The White Party and the Coachella Music Festival, which draws an especially young demographic.
With year-round warm weather and plenty of events and cool activities, there’s no better time than now to take a page out of the old Hollywood stars' book and head into the desert for a gaycation among the palms.
Table of Contents
1. General Tips
2. Transportation & Airport Transfers
3. Gay Hotels in Palm Springs
4. Sightseeing and Activities in Palm Springs
5. Gay Tours in Palm Springs
6. Restaurants and Cafes
7. Palm Springs Gay Bars and Clubs
8. Gay Saunas & Cruising Bars in Palm Springs
9. Gay Events in Palm Springs
10. Day Trips from Palm Springs
General Tips
One of the best things to do in Palm Springs is, quite simply, nothing. After all, Palm Springs is a resort town, so take advantage of it: head to your hotel or resort’s pool and spend your day lounging, sipping cocktails, and enjoying your—no doubt well-earned—holiday time. You’re also following in the footsteps of distinguished company, as Palm Springs is famous as the second home to some of Hollywood’s biggest stars, past and present. Barbra Streisand, for one, along with many other famous actors, actresses, and gay icons, calls Palm Springs home.
Palm Springs is, of course, located in a desert, so the months of July and August are extremely hot and best to avoid. The more prudent time to visit is October to March when the heat is more bearable, with daytime temperatures around 25–30°C (75–85°F), and it can get surprisingly cool in the evening, often down to 10–15°C (50–60°F). While not ideal for swimming, winter can still make for a pleasant getaway, especially if you’re coming from a cold destination and want to escape the snow. Note there's a big difference in the population when there is a big gay event on and when there isn't, so check the calendar if you're looking for a relaxing getaway and don't fancy being swept up in a horde of topless partygoers – which sounds like heaven to us, but isn't for everyone.
It should go without saying that Palm Springs is gay-friendly—how could it be anything else? You’ll be welcomed anywhere in the town, but the Arenas District is the true gayborhood for those looking for a good night out!
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Transportation & Airport Transfer
Most people visiting Palm Springs arrive by car from LA or nearby urban centers. The drive from LA is just two hours and makes for an easy add-on to any visit to Los Angeles. However, Palm Springs does actually have its own – admittedly small – airport just a 10 minute drive from the downtown.
Gay Hotels & Resorts in Palm Springs
Luxury
Thompson Palm Springs, By Hyatt – This luxurious 4-star hotel is also just a short walk from the lively Arenas District. The hotel offers stylish, well-appointed rooms featuring mid-century modern decor with private balconies overlooking the desert landscape or mountains. The hotel also has a rooftop pool, state-of-the-art fitness center and a spa. For dining, The Lobby Bar and Dining Terrace serve up a range of gourmet dishes in a sophisticated setting.
Mid-Range
Canyon Club Hotel – Conveniently located near popular attractions, this property features a spacious clothing-optional pool area and a sauna. The hotel also provides bicycle rentals and access to a business center.
Best Western Plus Las Brisas Hotel – Also located in downtown Palm Springs, this is actually two homely hotels in one. It combines Spanish-style architecture with modern amenities, offering cozy rooms, a cocktail lounge, a beautifully manicured garden courtyard and an outdoor pool surrounded by lush palm trees with a poolside bar. Prices include a complimentary hot breakfast.
Hotel Zoso – Once a Hard Rock this hotel is especially well-know by the community as it hosts many of the gay events like during Leather & Bear Pride. The rooms are “desert-inspired” and include the private balconies with mountain views you'd expect from a Palm Springs establishment. The pool areas gets pretty lively and the hotel also houses its own restaurant, cocktail bar and even a nightclub.
Ace Hotel and Swim Club – This hotel features a bohemian design, with rooms offering either a garden patio or an in-room fireplace. The Ace Hotel and Swim Club boasts two pools and an outdoor fireplace area for relaxing and sipping cocktails. After a workout in the gym, guests can unwind with a massage at the full-service spa.
Resorts
InnDulge – One of the most popular clothing-optional resort in Palm Spings, especially during parties. It also has a great pool and friendly staff going for it. The amenities include a 12-person jacuzzi and a heated/chilled saltwater pool, both open 24 hours. Enjoy morning breakfast, evening social hours, Thursday pizza, and weekend pool parties.
All Worlds Resorts – Another popular resort, which is located just a few blocks from the ‘Arenas Road Entertainment District,’ home to great bars, parties, karaoke, and dining. Guests can enjoy complimentary coffee and restful amenities, including a heated pool and a soothing hot tub. Day and night passes are also available.
Margaritaville Resort Palm Springs – Relax and enjoy a full-service spa, world-class golf course, shopping, and sightseeing opportunities. Hotel guests have access to a pool, well-equipped gym, and a full-service salon..
Twin Palms Resort – This paradisiacal, upscale gay men’s resort offers the perfect retreat by blending indoor and outdoor living. It includes spacious, air-conditioned rooms, access to a large, swimsuit-optional outdoor pool, and a delicious breakfast, either continental or à la carte.
Santiago Resort – A men-only, 4-star property featuring a year-round outdoor pool. Santiago Resort is located in south Palm Springs, near downtown, and is one of the nicest clothing-optional resorts in the area.
El Mirasol Villas– This gay men’s resort is perfect for those who enjoy relaxing in a vibrant atmosphere. It offers cozy rooms with private patios and mountain views, along with complimentary breakfasts. Other amenities include clothing-optional pools, quaint gardens, and a 10-person jacuzzi.
CCBC Resort Hotel – If you have priorities beyond just sleeping, then this clothing-optional resort in Cathedral City (about a 15-minute drive from Palm Springs) might be for you. In other words, it's a bit cruisy and has an open-air sauna vibe. In fact, many porn films are made here. It is also the largest clothing-optional resort for men in the U.S., and during events, you can expect drag shows by the pool and lots of day drinking! Day passes are also available for those who just want to dip their toes in the pool… so to speak. The resort also features its own restaurant, a large pool, a hot tub, a Turkish steam bath, and plenty of outdoor spaces.
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Palm Springs Ariel Tramway – one of the best experiences in Palm Springs is taking the cable car, which transports visitors from the desert floor to the alpine heights of Mount San Jacinto. The tram ascends over 8,500 feet (2,590 meters) in approximately 10 minutes, providing panoramic views of the Coachella Valley. Notably, the tram cars rotate slowly during the journey, ensuring a 360-degree perspective for all passengers. At the summit, temperatures are typically 20-30°F (11-17°C) cooler than in the valley, offering a refreshing contrast. The Mountain Station features observation decks, dining options, and access to over 50 miles of hiking trails within the Mount San Jacinto State Park. As of 2024, adult round-trip tickets are priced at $34.95, with discounts available for seniors and children. It's advisable to check the official website for current pricing and operating hours before planning your visit. Book tour →
Weekly Palm Springs VillageFest – If you're in Palm Springs on a Thursday evening, don't miss the this party. From 6 PM to 10 PM, Palm Canyon Drive transforms into a vibrant pedestrian street fair, offering a variety of crafts, artwork, entertainment, and diverse food and drink options. It's an excellent opportunity to enjoy the warm evening, shop, and soak in the relaxed atmosphere.
BINGO and Trivia Night at the Ace Hotel & Swim Club – For a lively Monday night, head to the Ace Hotel & Swim Club for their Bingo and Trivia Night. Hosted by local drag icon Bella da Ball, this event combines the excitement of bingo with the challenge of trivia, all set in the Amigo Room's welcoming environment. It's a must-see for those looking to experience Palm Springs' vibrant drag scene.
Palm Springs Air Museum – Aviation enthusiasts rejoice at this museum, showcasing one of the world’s largest collections of flyable World War II aircraft, along with planes from the Korean and Vietnam wars. Located near the Palm Springs International Airport, the museum offers immersive exhibits, interactive displays, and flight simulators. Visitors can explore meticulously restored aircraft up close, learn about aviation history from passionate volunteers, and even experience flight demonstrations on select days.
Icons Tour – A two-hour exploration of Palm Springs in a red open-air Jeep. You’ll ride around town learning about the history of Palm Springs and gaining insights into how it became such an iconic destination. Palm Springs has always been a favorite for gay and lesbian stars, as well as other icons across decades. This tour showcases the best, including the homes of legends like Lily Tomlin, Liberace, Judy Garland, Cher, and Barry Manilow. Book tour →
Uptown Design District – A stylish enclave renowned for its mid-century modern flair. Stretching along North Palm Canyon Drive, it’s a haven for design lovers, offering a mix of upscale boutiques, art galleries, vintage furniture stores, and chic home decor shops. The area is perfect for strolling, with iconic architecture and beautifully curated storefronts reflecting Palm Springs' retro-modern aesthetic
Camelot Theatre – Also known as the PS Cultural Centre, is a historic venue established in 1967, it has evolved into a cultural hub hosting a variety of events, including film festivals, live performances, and art exhibitions. The theater is renowned for its state-of-the-art facilities and commitment to showcasing independent and international films. There is ALWAYS something unique on there.
Gay Tours in Palm Springs
Drag & Fly Tours – Priscilla had the right idea! Take a tour with Palm Springs' very own queens of the desert: local drag legends Anita Doll and Miss B. You'll board a luxury “theater on wheels” for a 100-minute tour, gliding around to see the city's best attractions while being accompanied by dazzling videos, games with prizes, live music, captivating storytelling, and the kind of entertainment only Palm Springs drag queens can provide. It's easily the most original thing to do in Palm Springs.
Restaurants and Cafes
Sonny’s Bar and Grill – Established by owner Sonny Vegas, this establishment is right on Arenas, making it a great place to fill your stomach before a night out and people-watch from its patio. It offers a fusion of American cuisine, including Mama's Meatloaf and Buffalo Chicken Sliders, complemented by specialty cocktails.
BlackBook – Technically a cocktail bar, but its small kitchen serves amazing burgers, Nashville hot chicken, and other regionally inspired standards. Due to its location on Arenas, it's a firm favorite with gay clientele.
The Sandwich Spot – Stop by for freshly made, specialty sandwiches featuring only the finest quality ingredients and freshly baked breads.
Birba – A popular dinner spot in downtown Palm Springs, Birba serves up delicious classic Italian pizzas (gluten-free crust available) and handcrafted cocktails. The menu also includes innovative weekly dinner specials, delicate salads, and homemade desserts.
Townie Bagels – Located in the Antique Shopping District, this bakery makes all its bagels, breads, muffins, bialys, and scones from scratch each day.
Azucar – Visit for dinner to enjoy contemporary cuisine with an emphasis on flavor, using high-quality, local ingredients. Enjoy the rooftop deck and sip on amazing cocktails and appetizers. Reservations are recommended.
Copley’s – This award-winning restaurant serves upscale American cuisine with hints of tropical and European flavors. Executive Chef Andrew Copley, with over 20 years of culinary experience, makes this a must-visit dinner spot in Palm Springs.
Jake's – A classic Palm Springs option with a fun and friendly atmosphere. Enjoy outdoor dining in a charming courtyard or a cozy indoor setting. Jake’s offers specialty cocktails, flavorful margaritas, a popular Sunday brunch, and a dinner menu with excellent seafood options.
TRIO – If a daily happy hour and patio seating aren’t enough, visit for the modern American cuisine and well-crafted specialty cocktails that make TRIO a favorite.
Eigtht 4Nine – For a touch of class with your meal head to the fashionable Uptown Design District of Palm Springs' Eight4Nine Restaurant & Lounge. The elegant and spacious patio is the place to be seen and the food is a fusion of New American comfort food with ethnic influences, showcasing dishes like the Charcuterie & Cheese Plate and Baked Boucheron.
Tropicale – A chic, mid-century-inspired restaurant renowned for its vibrant atmosphere and eclectic “world cuisine.” Their diverse menu features Pacific Rim specialties, tapas, salads, and wood-fired pizzas. The Coral Seas Lounge, a stylish bar within the restaurant, serves creative cocktails and classic favorites, leading to a lush, tropical patio ideal for al fresco dining.
Palm Springs Gay Bars and Clubs
The Purple Room – Originally opened in the 1960s, this bar was one of Palm Springs’ original Rat Pack hangouts, often frequented by Frank Sinatra and friends. Recently reopened with swanky updated decor, it features a large performance stage where impersonator Michael Holmes delivers amazing renditions of Judy Garland, Carol Channing, Mae West, and Katharine Hepburn. The Judy Show is the must-see event at The Purple Room, paying homage to the late Judy Garland in a perfect blend of comedy and outstanding music.
Tool Shed – Known as Palm Springs’ friendliest leather and Levi cruise bar, Tool Shed is located in the Warm Sands District – about a fifteen minute walk from Arenas. Stop by for morning specials on screwdrivers and Bloody Marys. Come for bingo, pool, to meet and socialize with the local crowd or show off your briefs at their weekly underwear party.
RetroRoom Lounge – An intimate atmosphere reminiscent of the Rat Pack days. Enjoy handcrafted cocktails prepared just the way Dean Martin would have preferred. RetroRoom features live, lounge-style entertainment on weekends and karaoke three nights a week.
Chill Bar – An aptly named bar with a casual atmosphere. Relax on the outdoor patio, enjoy upbeat music, and sip refreshing beverages with friends after a game of pool.
Street Bar – Whether you're new in town or a frequent patron, Streetbar is where people connect. Especially those from an older crowd. At Streetbar, everyone is part of the nightly entertainment. It's particular famous for it’s cheap and very strong drinks-
Oscar's – A casual spot known for its live entertainment and weekly events in its indoor showroom and spacious courtyard. Enjoy great food and cocktails at the Sunday Drag Brunch or Saturday evening cabaret.
Quadz – Sing your heart out at this lively sing-along bar, which plays music video clips and musical theater classics. Enjoy show tunes every Friday, Saturday, and Monday, or take the mic yourself for karaoke on Thursdays. Its patio is also a rather pleasant place to relax on a nice day.
Hunters – This spot has a little of everything. Start with delicious burgers and drink specials, then stay for dancing, DJs and go-go boys later at night when it becomes a small nightclub. Hunters also hosts trivia nights and karaoke during the week.
Dick's on Arenas – This fun pubs small but popular for cruising and attracts bears, kinksters, and others looking to mingle. It’s a great spot for drinks, fun, and making new friends or lovers.
Toucans Tiki Lounge – An exciting cocktail bar and lounge packed with talent and entertainment. Visit for drag shows, comedy, live music, and cabaret, or enjoy their weekly theme nights and bustling dance floor.
Saunas and Cruising Bars in Palm Springs
There is not a traditional gay sauna or bathhouse in Palm Springs, however, All World Resorts has cruising and hookup areas and sells day and night passes, as does CCBC over in Cathedral City. Dick's on Arenas (mentioned in the bars section) is also popular with kinkier cruisers, but isn't a dedicated cruising bar.
Gay Events in Palm Springs
Dinah Shore Weekend – This is the place to be for gay women! As the largest lesbian event and music festival, it attracts more than 10,000 attendees from around the world.
Palm Springs Gay Pride – Palm Springs’ Gay Pride takes place each November, drawing a crowd of over 60,000. It’s the perfect excuse to visit and enjoy the warm November weather, while much of the country is experiencing fall or early winter. The pride parade happens on Sunday morning, featuring a vibrant mix of local organizations, activists, and themed floats along Palm Canyon Drive. The parade concludes around 12:30 pm, and the city hosts a free pride festival with performances, food, and plenty of fun to wrap up the pride weekend. You can also attend various events throughout the weekend, including pool parties, the Ladies’ Party on Saturday night at Georgie’s Alibi Azul Patio, and the Sunday Tea Dance at Oscar’s.
Palm Springs Leather Pride – This annual event has been held since the 1990s and includes pool parties, cocktail hours, night parties, and the Mr. Palm Springs Leather Contest. No need to worry about the heat, as it takes place during the last weekend of October.
Cathedral City LGBT Days – Just a 10-minute drive from Palm Springs, Cathedral City hosts California's first Pride event of the year in March. Activities include the famous Bed Race, a champagne brunch, and concerts.
Coachella Music Festival –The Coachella Music Festival happens each April in Indio, about 45 minutes from Palm Springs. This two-weekend festival hosts over 200 performers across genres like rock, indie, pop, and electronic music. Since its start in 1999, Coachella has become a popular road trip destination due to its remote location. Though it’s not in Palm Springs, many choose to stay there due to limited hotel space in Indio. With plenty of shuttle buses available, you can attend the festival by day and retreat back to Palm Springs for the nightlife, dining, and relaxed vibe.
White Party – The White Party is the largest and longest-running event of its kind in the US. Originally started in Palm Springs more than 20 years ago, the party has since expanded to Miami and Bangkok.
Day Trips from Palm Springs
Joshua Tree National Park – Explore the stunning landscape of Joshua Tree National Park on a trip from Palm Desert, near Palm Springs. Travel in the comfort of an air-conditioned van as you navigate soaring granite formations and groves of the park’s famous spiky trees. Capture unforgettable images of the diverse terrain spanning the Colorado and Mojave deserts.
Idylwild – A charming, rustic town in the mountains with a hippie vibe, makes for the perfect day trip to escape the desert heat. Just a scenic 1-hour drive away through the mountains, Idyllwild offers cooler temperatures, fresh pine-scented air, and stunning views of the San Jacinto Mountains, along with art galleries and cozy cafes. Outdoor enthusiasts can explore the numerous hiking trails, such as the popular Ernie Maxwell Scenic Trail or the challenging climb up Tahquitz Peak. It’s a very scenic drive into the mountains.
Greater Palm Springs, with its large and vibrant LGBTQ+ community, is known as a welcoming and inclusive travel destination. This Southern California oasis comprises nine distinct cities—Palm Springs, Desert Hot Springs, Cathedral City, Rancho Mirage, Palm Desert, Indian Wells, La Quinta, Indio, and Coachella—where visitors can enjoy world-class resorts, boutique hotels, a lively nightlife scene, cultural attractions, and signature events like Greater Palm Springs Pride. Visit the official LGBT+ guide from the Palm Springs tourism office.
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