Everything is bigger in Texas! Well, at least that’s what they claim. And it’s certainly true when it comes to the city of Dallas, the third-largest city in Texas with a population of over 1.3 million. But the question is—as always—is bigger better? And what does the Big D have to offer LGBTQ+ travelers?

It turns out, quite a lot. Dallas is a sprawling metropolis that uniquely blends southern charm with cosmopolitan flair. There’s plenty to see and do to fill any holiday agenda, from visiting museums like the Sixth Floor JFK Museum to exploring the U.S.’s first LGBTQ+ church, enjoying the views from Reunion Tower, and experiencing Oak Lawn’s charismatic gay nightlife scene.

Although Texas has a reputation for being one of the more conservative parts of the U.S., Dallas truly feels like the lavender heart of the state. The city's welcoming LGBTQ+ community embraces the mindset that “y’all” really does mean all. This inclusive attitude has led to a growth in LGBTQ+ tourism to the city. This guide takes in all the Big D has to offer.

Table of Contents

1. General Tips
2. Transportation & Airport Transfer
3. Gay Hotels in Dallas
4. Sightseeing & Activities in Dallas
5. Restaurants & Cafes
6. Dallas Gay Bars and Clubs
7. Dallas Gay Saunas & Cruising Bars
8. Gay Events in Dallas
9. Day Trips from Dallas

General Tips

Dallas’s gay scene is centered around the Oak Lawn neighborhood, known locally as the “gayborhood.” Here, you'll find a variety of gay bars, clubs, and cafes that blend the typical LGBTQ+ scene with a unique touch of Southern flair. It’s the perfect base for any stay, with the Arts District being a great secondary choice. For cheaper hotels though it might be wiser to look further out of the Downtown area.

The best time to visit Dallas is during the spring (March to May) or fall (September to November) when the weather is pleasant and outdoor activities are in full swing. These seasons also coincide with several LGBTQ+ festivals and events, making it an ideal time for travelers looking to immerse themselves in the local culture. Dallas, like the rest of Texas, gets really hot, especially in the summer. So, if you visit during this time, don’t expect to do much walking.

Transportation & Airport Transfer

Dallas/Fort Worth International Airport (DFW) is the third-largest airport in the world, with flights going pretty much everywhere across the States and to many destinations in Europe, South America, Australia, and Asia.

Getting to the city center from the airport is straightforward and convenient. The most economical option is the DART Rail Orange Line, which connects the airport to downtown Dallas in about 50 minutes. Tickets cost around $3 and can be purchased at the station. Alternatively, taxis and ride-sharing services like Uber and Lyft are readily available and will get you to the city center in 25-30 minutes, with fares typically ranging from $40 to $50.

Public transportation in Dallas is efficient and user-friendly. The Dallas Area Rapid Transit (DART) system includes buses, light rail, and trolleys, making it easy to explore the city and its surrounding areas. Day passes are available for $6, providing unlimited rides on all DART services. For those who prefer biking or scooters, Dallas also offers bike-sharing programs with numerous stations throughout the city, which is a great way to get around outside of summer.

Gay Hotels in Dallas

If you are traveling to Dallas during high season (April to June), on the weekends, or during major gay events, it’s best to book your rooms in advance to ensure availability. Many of these properties are small and book quickly when in high demand.

Luxury

The Joule Hotel – You know you’re in for a treat in a hotel when the lobby is gorgeous, and the Joule’s is exquisite. This five-star upscale hotel is housed in a revitalized 1920s neo-Gothic building, located in the heart of downtown Dallas not far from Oak Lawn and right in front of the Giant Eyeball, which you can see from your window. The hotel boasts stylish rooms and suites, each adorned with contemporary art and elegant decor. The hotel’s facilities are equally impressive, featuring a state-of-the-art fitness center and a world-class spa offering a range of treatments. Hanging out at the rooftop pool takes on a whole new meaning as the pool expands out past the roof for unnerving views, making it a great photo location. Dining options include the award-winning CBD Provisions restaurant, which serves farm-to-table cuisine, and a variety of stylish bars and lounges.

Hotel ZaZa Dallas – This is where all the cool kids with cash to splash stay. Situated in the Uptown district, Hotel ZaZa offers chic accommodations with a touch of whimsy. Both the halls and rooms in this boutique hotel are bedecked with unique artworks (they have their own Art House), and each of their suites has a theme from Far East to Bohemia. They have a luxurious spa, fitness center, and a trendy pool area where there is live entertainment and cocktails every night. Additionally, their famous restaurant, Dragonfly, is renowned for serving fine Mediterranean cuisine.

Mid-Range

Warwick Melrose Hotel – Another option in Oak Lawn, this historic four-star hotel exudes charm and elegance, from the late-night Library Piano Bar to their Grand Ballroom. It also features beautifully appointed rooms, a 4-diamond on-site restaurant, a lavish spa, and a tranquil outdoor pool area.

Aloft Dallas Downtown – This three-star hotel has a modern-meets-urban style and is known for its cozy loft-style rooms. Located conveniently near Oak Lawn, it also features a trendy cocktail bar, a lounge, a gourmet cafe, a 24-hour fitness center, and an outdoor splash pool.

The Beeman – Chic, swanky, and affordable are the three words that best describe this contemporary hotel. The rooms are colorful but tastefully designed, featuring modern décor, plush bedding, and amenities like workspaces for those on working holidays. Many rooms also offer views of the Dallas skyline. The Beeman’s pool is indoor and heated, making it an ideal choice for a winter stay. It also has a well-equipped fitness center and a Dallas-style lobby bar and restaurant.

Budget

The Bishop Arts Hotel by Qresorts – For cheaper hotels, it’s necessary to stay a little out of the Downtown area, like this quiet, homely hotel in the Bishop Arts area. This stylish hotel features modern amenities like an outdoor swimming pool, a shared lounge, and a terrace, all while blending with the artsy charm of the surrounding neighborhood. Each room at the hotel is thoughtfully designed, offering a comfortable and contemporary stay with personalized service.

Sightseeing & Activities in Dallas

The Sixth Floor Museum at Dealey Plaza – Explore the history of the JFK assassination at this poignant museum, located in the former Texas School Book Depository, where evidence suggests the shots that killed Kennedy were fired. Exhibits include historic films, photographs, and artifacts that detail Kennedy’s life, presidency, and the impact of his assassination on the nation. The museum also offers a panoramic view of Dealey Plaza, giving visitors a poignant connection to that fateful day in 1963. Book tour →

Reunion Tower – One of Dallas's most iconic landmarks, offering a unique perspective of the city. Standing 561 feet tall, this geodesic dome structure features an observation deck known as the “GeO-Deck,” where visitors can enjoy 360-degree views of Dallas's stunning skyline. The tower also boasts interactive displays that provide insights into the city's history and landmarks. For a memorable dining experience, visit the revolving restaurant, “Five Sixty by Wolfgang Puck,” located at the top of the tower. Book tour →

Dallas Arts District – This eclectic neighborhood, as the name suggests, is filled with unique boutiques and art galleries. In fact, it spans 19 blocks, making it the largest urban arts district in the nation. One of its main attractions is the free Dallas Museum of Art, which boasts an impressive collection of over 24,000 works spanning 5,000 years of history. Another highlight is the Nasher Sculpture Center, which has a tranquil outdoor sculpture garden. Book tour →

Klyde Warren Park – This urban park is a green oasis in the heart of downtown Dallas. Enjoy food trucks, free yoga classes, live music, and more. It’s a perfect spot to relax and soak in the city’s lively atmosphere.

The Cathedral of Hope – Located in the vibrant Oak Lawn neighborhood, it is the largest predominantly LGBTQ+ church in the world. The cathedral's modern architecture features a striking blend of glass and light, creating a welcoming and serene atmosphere. The church is committed to social justice, community outreach, and spiritual growth, offering a safe space for worship and fellowship to all, regardless of sexual orientation or gender identity. All are welcome to visit, whether Christian or not.

Giant Eyeball – Literally a 30-foot tall sculpture of an eyeball in the middle of downtown Dallas. The whimsical piece of public art was created by artist Tony Tasset and is situated in a private garden at the Joule Hotel. The hyper-realistic eyeball, made of fiberglass, draws curious onlookers with its surreal and slightly eerie presence and is one of the most photographed spots in the city.

Dallas Cattle Drive Sculptures – Possibly the second most photographed sculpture in Dallas, this is one of the largest bronze monument installations in the world. These impressive sculptures in Pioneer Plaza near the Dallas Convention Center depict a cattle drive, featuring 49 life-sized longhorn steers being driven by three trail riders on horseback. The artwork commemorates the trails that brought settlers and cattle through Dallas in the 19th century, reflecting the city's rich Western heritage. Created by artist Robert Summers, the sculptures are set in a landscaped environment with flowing streams and native plants, transporting visitors back to the days of the Old West. Book tour →

The Dallas Arboretum and Botanical Garden – A 66-acre oasis of natural beauty located on the shores of White Rock Lake. Renowned for its stunning display gardens, seasonal festivals, and breathtaking views, the Arboretum is a favorite destination for nature lovers and families alike. The garden features a variety of themed areas, including the tranquil Japanese Garden, vibrant rose gardens, and the interactive Rory Meyers Children's Adventure Garden. Book tour →

Dallas Zoo – The oldest and largest zoological park in Texas spans 106 acres and is home to over 2,000 animals representing 400 species. Located just three miles south of downtown Dallas, the zoo offers a rich blend of wildlife and educational experiences. Highlights include the award-winning Giants of the Savanna, where visitors can see elephants, giraffes, and zebras in a spacious, naturalistic setting. The Wilds of Africa exhibit takes guests on a journey through diverse African ecosystems.

Restaurants and Cafes

Hunky’s Old Fashioned Hamburgers – If you’re looking for some classic American comfort food in Texas-sized portions, you can’t go wrong with this classic diner-style restaurant in Oak Lawn. Expect juicy burgers, hot dogs, crispy fries, and huge milkshakes. The retro vibe and friendly atmosphere make it a favorite among LGBTQ+ locals.

Lucky’s Café – This diner is an institution in Oak Lawn, offering hearty breakfasts and delicious Southern comfort food, which is locally sourced farm-to-table. They are open from 7 a.m. to 10 p.m., but any time of day is brunch at Lucky’s as they serve it all day. The interior has an authentic diner look with additions such as their Tribute Wall, which honors the Oak Lawn community members who contributed to the AIDS Research Center as part of a charity fundraising event fifteen years ago.

Roy G’s – Named after the color spectrum mnemonic “Roy G. Biv,” this gay-owned venue is celebrated for its colorful decor, superabundance of Pride flags, and playful ambiance that especially attracts LGBTQ+ folk. The menu offers a mix of creative cocktails, burgers, and sides, making it a popular spot for both casual hangouts and to kickstart a night out.

Union Cafe – Come support the local LGBTQ+ community while enjoying a nice cup of coffee at this community-oriented coffeehouse in Oak Lawn. They often run events like spoken-word nights, with a portion of sales going to nonprofits.

RH Rooftop – This restaurant is the place to be seen in Dallas! It’s as chic as they come and is located on the third floor of RH Dallas, a 70,000-square-foot design furniture shop and gallery. The rooftop terrace is intricately decorated with plant life, fountains, and chandeliers, giving a sense of grandeur. The food is elevated comfort food, with highlights including Lobster Rolls and Truffle Fries. Be sure to make reservations as it’s an extremely popular restaurant.

Campuzano – The best Tex-Mex in town! Well, at least in Oak Lawn. The restaurant has been around for 25 years, and it's easy to see why it's so popular: the portions are generous, the margaritas sharp, and the tacos delicious. It also has a patio to enjoy when the Dallas heat isn’t in full swing.

French Room – This elegant restaurant with Rococo decor is located in the luxurious Hotel Adolphus and serves fine French dining. It’s a truly singular experience for those who want a taste of French aristocracy. You can expect luxurious silverware, teas from all around the world, French finger food, and delicious scones. Dress for the occasion because they enforce a smart dress code.

Oishii Sushi & Pan-Asian – A well-loved dining spot located on Wycliff Avenue just outside of Oak Lawn, Oishii is renowned for its fresh sushi and diverse pan-Asian cuisine. The restaurant offers a wide range of dishes that appeal to all sushi aficionados and fans of Asian flavors. Easily the best place for delicious sushi rolls and sashimi, this restaurant gets busy quickly, so book a table or arrive early to avoid a long wait.

Dallas Gay Bars and Clubs

Oak Lawn is the gay neighborhood of Dallas, and most of its gay bars and clubs are found along the area known as “The Strip” on Cedar Springs.

The Round-Up Saloon – A gay country-western bar with line dancing! You can't get more Texas than that. There’s a huge dance floor to dip it like a Dairy Queen on, great country music, and lots of people ready to have a real good time. If you’re looking for a little Brokeback Mountain action, this is where you’ll find it.

Station 4 (S4) – Known for its massive dance floor, drag shows, and impressive light shows, S4 is a staple in Dallas’s gay nightlife. The drinks are well-priced, and the atmosphere is always electric. Upstairs is the famous Rose Room, the only bar in Dallas where you can see top-notch drag five days a week.

JR’s Bar & Grill – A long-standing favorite in the Oak Lawn area, JR’s is a multi-level gay bar with a fun dance floor downstairs and a bustling patio upstairs. The drinks are cheap, and the crowd is a happy mix of regulars and LGBTQ+ visitors.

Dallas Woody's – This LGBTQ+ sports bar is the place to watch college and national televised sports on their multiple televisions throughout its two levels. They also run theme nights, karaoke, trivia, and drag shows.

Sue Ellen’s – The oldest lesbian bar in Dallas, established in 1989, and still going strong. This two-story venue is the size of a nightclub with multiple bars and two patios. It also has the largest game room on The Strip. Although a lesbian bar, all are welcome, and it features live music, DJ sets, and even weekly karaoke.

Havana Lounge – If your heart is in Havana, then this is the place for you. This nightclub focuses on Latin American music and hosts drag shows and Drag Race viewing parties. The bartenders are also mighty generous with their pouring measures.

The Hidden Door – This gay dive bar is known for its unpretentious vibes, cheap drinks, and sociable back patio area. Especially popular with bears.

The Mining Company (TMC) – Here be sexy go-go dancers. This nightclub has no cover charge, an energetic dance floor, and guys on poles galore. The music is a mix of electronic, pop, and dance hits. TMC is also famous for its large outdoor patio, which offers a more relaxed setting to enjoy your drink away from the steamy interior.

Dallas Sauna & Cruising Bars

Club Dallas – Part of a chain of saunas across the U.S., Dallas’s location is upscale and especially popular on the weekends. It boasts a gym, a “cowboy” whirlpool, steam room, dry sauna, heated pool, sundeck, outdoor pool, maze darkroom area, lounges, and private dressing rooms. You need to become a member to enter, but this is easily accomplished at the door, and entry costs around $12 for one visit.

Gay Events in Dallas

Dallas Pride – Pride in Dallas is a major event in June that brings the local LGBTQ+ community together. Sunday is the main event, starting with a Vendor Festival in Fair Park and transitioning at 2 p.m. into the Alan Ross Texas Freedom Parade, a colorful one-mile parade showcasing the joyous and diverse LGBTQ+ folks of Dallas.

Purple Party Weekend – A party for a good cause! This annual LGBTQ+ fundraising event benefits local HIV/AIDS organizations and is organized by the Purple Foundation, a nonprofit dedicated to raising funds for the fight against HIV/AIDS. The event takes place over a weekend, typically in the spring, and features a series of dance parties, including the famously fun Revival Tea Party.

Dallas Southern Pride – Celebrated in October, Dallas Southern Pride specifically honors the African American LGBTQ+ community. It features its own colorful parade, dance parties, and cultural events.

Black Tie Dinner – They clean up well in Dallas! Come see for yourself at this annual event in November, which raises funds for LGBTQ+ organizations in North Texas. The elegant evening includes a formal dinner, silent auction, and celebrity appearances from the likes of Todrick Hall and Cynthia Nixon.

Dallas Bears Texas Bear Round-Up (TBRU) – There are a lot of bears in Texas, and they gather in March for one of the largest bear events in the country. TBRU includes social events, parties, and a charity auction—all in celebration of the hirsute man.

Day Trips from Dallas

Southfork Ranch – If you don’t visit a ranch, are you really in Texas? Southfork Ranch, located in Parker, Texas, just outside of Dallas, is a must-visit for fans of the iconic TV show Dallas. This sprawling estate became famous as the fictional home of the Ewing family. Visitors can tour the mansion, exploring rooms filled with memorabilia from the show, and learn about the history of the series. The ranch also offers horseback riding, walking trails, and picturesque landscapes for a true Texas experience. Book tour →

Fort Worth – Just a 30-minute drive from Dallas, Fort Worth is a Texan city that gives a perfect mix of western heritage and modernity. Visit the Fort Worth Stockyards for a taste of cowboy culture, explore the world-class Kimbell Art Museum, or reunite with Mother Nature at Fort Worth Botanic Garden. Book tour →

Waco – About 90 minutes south of Dallas, this central Texas city is the home to the famous Magnolia Market at the Silos, created by HGTV stars Chip and Joanna Gaines of Fixer Upper. Other offbeat attractions of the city include the Waco Mammoth National Monument and the Dr Pepper Museum. Book tour →

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