New York City, renowned for its pulsating energy and diverse population, has long been a haven for LGBTQ+ individuals seeking acceptance, community and just some old-fashioned no-holds barred gay fun! At the heart of this inclusive culture is its nightlife and a host of iconic gay bars, which have played a vital role both in shaping LGBTQ+ history and served as the motherships to generations of gay and queer people within the big apple.

The gay bar scene still thrives to this day, with these mothership bars evolving as the years go by, giving birth to a whole new generation of gay bars. From the historic Stonewall Inn – the birthplace of the modern LGBTQ+ movement – to the leather-clad daddy welcoming Eagle to the gay cowboy joint Flaming Saddles, we weave a rich tapestry within the gay community and New York city represents any part of it you could possibly name or imagine.

Let’s look at some of the best with just a splash of history to wash down with whatever your poison may be:

Stonewall Inn

Of course, no list of New York gay bars could start with anything less than the most iconic gay bar in not just New York, but perhaps the whole world. The Stonewall Inn is now a National Historic Landmark due to its legacy in being the location of the 1969 Stonewall Riots, which were a catalyst to change for gay rights movements across the globe – ultimately leading us to the Gay Pride marches and parties we enjoy to this day.

Fast forward to the present and it remains a popular bar both with residents and, of course, gay tourists looking to take a walk-through history. The Stonewall Inn’s old school stylings really do make you feel like you are having a drink in a living monument. The bar has adapted to the modern day by hosting drag shows and cabaret shows, alongside other events and parties. No trip to New York is truly complete without a trip to where it all started.

The Manhattan Monster

Conveniently placed right in front of the Stonewall Inn, the Manhattan Monster —sometimes simply shortened to The Monster—is legendary in its own right. As an interesting side fact, the bar is named after the mysterious rat-like dead creature with a mutilated face that washed up under the Brooklyn Bridge some years ago. Grossly fascinating as that may be, it is not the reason the bar is so legendary, but rather that it has been frequented by some of the biggest names in the gay world—such as the mother of modern drag herself, RuPaul.

The Monster is also a bar of contrasts, with a piano bar upstairs for the cultured to enjoy sing-along sessions with a wealth of talented performers, whereas late in the evening, the basement opens to reveal a fun-fueled—often packed—nightclub replete with go-go dancers and an eclectic mix of pop and dance hits being played. DJs such as drag icon Lady Bunny are even known to make an appearance.

The Eagle

The Eagle is another institution of a bar, having been open since 1970 in the wake of the Stonewall Riots, and it has been the gathering place of hot men with a kinky streak ever since. The building was—perhaps aptly—originally a horse stable and now has a sleazy yet welcoming vibe. Ostensibly a leather bar, in reality, it now attracts more of a mixed clientele and welcomes anyone. There are still all the fetish elements, though, with porn playing in the background, and if you’re going there for the kink, you’ll no doubt find someone that matches your style.

During the weekends, The Eagle gets very busy, but there is a cozy roof terrace to chill out on and enjoy some good gay company—especially in the summer. At the back, you’ll also find a pool table and dartboard, all the better to challenge a leather daddy to a game at. The Eagle runs events ranging from Jockstrap Wednesday to cigar nights to their (in)famous Mr. Eagle competition.

Rebar Chelsea 

Rebar literally means a reinforcing metal bar, and the bar is certainly a stable force in New York’s gay scene, found in the Chelsea neighborhood of Manhattan. Its key selling point is the sheer mixture of different types of men drawn there—from circuit party boys to local twinks to businessmen. Its second is the fact it stays open every day of the week until 4 a.m., making it the ideal locale for a cheeky mid-weeknight drinking session.

Rebar boasts an eclectic roster ranging from cabaret, drag, and jazz shows to sexy weekend dance pop parties. Rebar might not be pushing the boundaries with respect to originality, but what it does, it does well, and it is everything a modern gay bar should be: diverse and fun!

Boxers HK

Boxers HK is New York City’s “gay sports bar,” which in itself makes it rather unique. Inside, you can both watch sports games in the lounge or video-equipped basement and enjoy the bar’s namesake: hunky bar staff serving drinks in their boxers. There are an impressive three bars, including an outdoor terrace and a rooftop deck, as well as a pool table and its own mini nightclub with an overlooking balcony. As well as your typical sports games, they also hold showings of our own beloved “Gay Olympics”—or RuPaul’s Drag Race to the initiated.

Barracuda Lounge

On the subject of drag, Barracuda Lounge in Hell’s Kitchen is renowned as being one—if not the—best place to see an intimate drag show in NYC on any given night of the week. Having been open since the 1990s, some have even argued the bar was part of the inspiration for Drag Race itself. Regardless, it is a popular celebrity hangout where you might rub shoulders with big names like Eartha Kitt, Charo, and Jennifer Coolidge. Every Thursday, the entertaining drag competition Star Search takes place to weed out the best in upcoming drag talent. Barracuda Lounge is also well known for the promotional events for Broadway shows—once, a spontaneous performance of Memory from Cats allegedly happened. The bar itself is small but has a cozy, intimate feel that makes you feel like you can truly lie back and enjoy the show. It is also inside an old bunker, so it’s the ideal retreat should you wish to enjoy drag during the event of nuclear war.

Flaming Saddles

“If you climb in the saddle, be ready to ride,” a wise cowboy once said, and Flaming Saddles is most definitely a place to go to enjoy the ride. If the title didn't give it away, it’s a gay cowboy bar that really goes all in on the Wild West theme. There are swing doors, wooden furniture, country music, line-dancing bar staff, and cowboy go-go dancers. Flaming Saddles is—as you can imagine—a bit raunchy, but it is also a tourist and bachelorette party magnet, meaning it gets packed with a mixed crowd, including a lot of women there for the view. But hey… who can blame them? Just remember to follow the rules displayed on the sign behind the bar stating “no wahooing.”

Industry Bar

Barracuda’s naughty sister bar in Chelsea has been voted New York City’s best gay bar by New York Magazine and various other publications. Industry Bar is huge, and the décor gives it a Berlin-styled industrial look, which stands in contrast to the stylish crowd and the pop music hits played. The clientele tends to be young—and rather attractive—professional types who come to let off steam after work. Towards the back is a big dance floor to enjoy some cheesy hits on. Whether it’s the best bar in NYC is highly disputable, but it is definitely one of the most enjoyable.

Rise Bar

Rise Bar is a much-beloved venue within Hell’s Kitchen and a wonderful place to have a cocktail during the day or night while taking advantage of its outdoor seating, ideal for watching the city roll by. They hold drag shows and—if you have a taste for crucifying yourself publicly—karaoke nights. Rise Bar isn’t a restaurant, but it has a reasonable menu of yummy food to order during the day, including steaks, omelets, and burgers. By night, the bar tends to fill, as does their dance floor, especially on Thirsty Thursdays—a night where the men are indeed thirsty. However, Rise Bar is perhaps best known for its Drag Brunches, which include unlimited mimosas, Bloody Marys, and St-Germain Spritz, all included in the show’s entrance fee.

Julius'

You’re only as old as you feel, and Julius' is still very much feeling its oats despite being—arguably—the oldest gay bar in NYC. The classic tavern bar opened in the 1860s and has an underrated legendary status itself: it was the location of some early gay activism in the form of a “sip-in,” where activists challenged the act of homosexuals being refused service by announcing their sexuality while ordering drinks. Julius' now operates under the rather old-school-sounding slogan “Good Drinks, Fine Food, and Great People”—and it serves up all three with happy hours, tasty burgers, and friendly bar staff. Adding further to the vintage feel, Julius' is cash-only and tends to draw more of a mature crowd. Julius' remains a staple in New York’s gay scene and is a testament to just how far NYC—and indeed the world—has come with respect to LGBTQ+ rights. One such right is the right to enjoy a good drink in peace and let the night take us wherever it may.